Pauline Washington's Obituary
On the chilly, yet peaceful, evening of February 1, 2024, Pauline “Cousin Polly” Washington entered eternal rest. In life, she affectionately honored the memories of her parents, Bernard and Mary Parker, as well as her sister, Marion Parker, who preceded her in death. She also cherished being the beloved wife to Army Veteran and retired D.C. Correction Officer, Alonzo Washington, Jr., for 20 years prior to his death.
Born in the scenic mountains of Mercer County, West Virginia, Cousin Polly exuded the same natural beauty and Appalachian hospitality found in the hillsides of her birthplace. An astute graduate of the West Virginia public school system and an unwavering believer and faithful servant of God, she had a way of welcoming and serving the vulnerable or marginalized while offering kindness to the celebrated.
Soon into her adult years, Cousin Polly purposely found her way to the Nation’s Capital which led to her public service career with the local and federal government. From over 32 years of federal service, she gained lifelong friendships. She first enjoyed life as a resident of the District of Columbia and membership at the New Macedonia Baptist Church in Southeast before purchasing her homes in Prince George’s County and then Charles County, Maryland. As she moved to Maryland, Cousin Polly became an active member of Fort Foote Baptist Church in Fort Washington where she was part of the Caregiver Committee, Compassion Choir and the Seasoned Saints Ministry. She later transferred her membership, continuing faithful study, service and fellowship at Mt. Ennon Baptist Church in Clinton for 14 years. She adored participating in Morning Bible Study and serving the Missionary Ministry, singing as part of the Consoling Choir and spending time with the Golden Circle.
Cousin Polly was a consistent volunteer in the church and community, philanthropist and faithful tither, who also loved her family and neighbors. She was private yet engaging. Along life’s journey, she met many amazing people. She was passionate about education, Black history and a strong supporter of President Barack Obama. She enjoyed the arts and theater, supporting local artists, and going to see movies. Shopping at Tyson’s Corner and dining out after church service were all-time favorites. She traveled to various historical sites in the United States, such as the Grand Canyon, routes for the underground Railroad, and even enjoyed trips to Canada and Brazil after retirement.
Cousin Polly lived a full life and leaves a host of relatives, friends and neighbors to cherish her memory.
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